There's a strange gender bias in which men who risk their lives or health are lauded as heroes, but women who do so need help. There couldn't be a female David Blaine. [Maybe not -- see the comments for counterexamples.]
I agree with Bertrand Russell, who wrote in his 1930 book The Conquest of Happiness:
Borrow's friend who taught himself Chinese in order to be able to endure the loss of his wife was seeking oblivion, but he sought it in an activity that had no harmful effects, but on the contrary improved his intelligence and his knowledge. Against such forms of escape there is nothing to be said. It is otherwise with the man who seeks oblivion in drinking or gambling or any other form of unprofitable excitement. There are, it is true, border-line cases. What should we say of the man who runs mad risks in aeroplanes or on mountain tops, because life has become irksome to him? If his risks serve any public object, we may admire him, but if not, we shall have to place him only slightly above the gambler and drunkard.
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